I've been scammed. What do I do right now?

Right now: the first hour

1. STOP all communication with the scammer — do not respond, do not click anything else, do not send more money under any circumstances. 2. Call your bank or payment provider immediately — tell them you've been a victim of fraud. Request a recall or chargeback. Time matters enormously here — banks can sometimes intercept wire transfers within 24-48 hours. 3. Document everything — screenshot all conversations, emails, transaction records, and the scammer's profile/contact information before they delete it. Save URLs, phone numbers, and usernames. 4. Change your passwords — if you shared any credentials, change them immediately from a different device. Start with email and banking. 5. Do NOT pay any "recovery fees" — scammers often circle back posing as recovery agents, lawyers, or government officials. Legitimate recovery never requires upfront payment. Ever.

Within 24 hours: report everywhere

Reporting creates a paper trail essential for potential recovery and protects future victims: Your bank — file a formal fraud dispute in writing, not just a phone call. Request a reference number. FBI IC3 (ic3.gov) — for US victims of any internet crime. This feeds into federal databases that track scam networks. FTC (reportfraud.ftc.gov) — creates a record that helps law enforcement identify patterns across thousands of reports. Action Fraud (UK) — actionfraud.police.uk for all UK fraud and cybercrime. Scamwatch (Australia) — scamwatch.gov.au for all Australian scam reports. Canadian Anti-Fraud Centre — for Canadian victims of all fraud types. Local police — file a police report. You'll need the report number for insurance claims and credit disputes. The platform where the scam occurred — dating app, social media, marketplace. Report the scammer's profile so they can be removed.

Beware recovery scams

This is critical and most guides don't mention it: after being scammed, you are now a known target. Your information may be on "sucker lists" sold between criminal groups. Watch for: "Recovery agents" who contact you claiming they can get your money back — for a fee. Legitimate recovery never charges upfront. Fake law firms that "specialize" in fraud recovery. Verify any firm through your state bar association before paying anything. Government imposters claiming to process your refund — governments don't cold-call to return money. Cryptocurrency "recovery services" — crypto recovery is extremely difficult and most services claiming to do it are scams themselves. The rule: if someone contacts YOU offering to help recover scam losses, it's almost certainly another scam.